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IF YOU ARE AN EXISTING MEMBER, THIS IS NOT THE FORM FOR YOU.
There is no renewal form for returning members.

Welcome to the Beth El community!

Filling out the form below will help us get to know you (and any family members). It is also how you pledge or pay annual membership dues.

We are here to help with any questions! Reach the office at (919) 682-1238.

MEMBER HOUSEHOLD INFORMATION

* How many Adult members are part of your household?

PRIMARY ADULT INFORMATION

* First Name

* Last Name

* Email Address

You will receive a confirmation email here.

* Mobile Phone Number

* Birthday

Beth El invites people of all faith and cultural backgrounds to attend and participate in our prayer services and play active roles in the community.

* How best describes your religious background?

Hebrew Name (include parents if known)

Use English transliteration, not Hebrew keyboard.

* Gender Pronouns

Preferred Pronouns

If you selected "other," please clarify here.

* Please select person's race/ethnicity and ancestral delineation (select all that apply)

AshkenazicSephardicMizrachiEthiopianAsian or Asian AmericanBlack or African AmericanHispanic or Latino/a/eMiddle Eastern or North AfricanNative American or Pacific IslanderWhite or CaucasianBi-racial or Multi-racialPrefer not to answer

OCCUPATION INFORMATION

Occupation / Job Title

Place of Employment

WE ARE EXCITED TO INTRODUCE YOU TO COMMUNITY MEMBERS WHO SHARE SIMILAR BACKGROUNDS. PLEASE SELECT ALL DEMOGRAPHIC CATEGORIES THAT APPLY TO YOU:

"Empty Nester" (parent whose young adult children are no longer living at home)Graduate School StudentGrandparentInterfaith HouseholdLGBTQ+ Self-Identifying or FamilyLives Outside of The TriangleParent/Guardian of Children 0-5Parent/Guardian of Elementary School Student(s)Parent/Guardian of Middle School Student(s)Parent/Guardian of High School Student(s)Parent/Guardian of College Student(s)Resident of Chapel HillResident of DurhamResident of Raleigh

INTERESTS

Our community members are the heart of everything we do -- from religious services to cultural programs, events and holiday gatherings. It all happens because of you. Membership dues and donations are an important part of the investment that keeps Beth El running, but we also rely on time and effort from volunteers. Below is a list of areas where fantastic lay leaders are already working and would welcome your contribution. We can use you for 15 minutes or for an entire day.

Check the box(es) that interest you.

FINANCE, DEVELOPMENT AND BUILDING

RITUAL AND EDUCATION

VA'AD HACHINUCH | Talmud Torah Policy & ProgramsRITUAL | Religious Services and ObservancesCHEVRA KADDISHA | Jewish Burial SocietySLOW DOWN MINYAN | Beginner-Friendly Slow and Meditative ServicesLIFELONG LEARNING | Cultural, Historic & Scientific EducationORTHODOX KEHILLAH | Services and CommunityDURHAM-ISH | YoungISH, ProfessionalISH, JewISH FolksCHAVURAH MINYAN | Lay-Led Spirited and Musical Services

ENGAGEMENT

MEMBER ENGAGEMENT | Welcome New and Potential MembersCOMMUNITY OF CARING | Call, Visit, Deliver MealsMAJOR EVENTS | Help Plan and Execute Ad-Hoc Events

COMMUNITY RELATIONS

SOCIAL ACTION | Promote Justice and Well-BeingINTERFAITH | Strengthen Ties Across Durham's Faith CommunitiesRACIAL JUSTICE | Education and Action for a More Inclusive Congregation and CommunityKOL KOLOTEINU | Support our LGBTQ CommunityKULANU | Fighting Antisemitism in our CommunityDURHAM CAN | Congregations Partnering for Justice and Systems Change

Are there other areas you want to learn about?

Any specialized skills you want to share?

If you have any mental or physical disabilities or accessibility needs that you would like us to be aware of, please let us know below.

Marital Status

Tribe, if known

Wedding Anniversary, (if applicable)

SECONDARY ADULT INFORMATION

* First Name

* Last Name

* Email Address

You will receive a confirmation email here.

* Mobile Phone Number

* Birthday

* How best describes your religious background?

Hebrew Name (include parents if known)

Use English transliteration, not Hebrew keyboard.

* Gender Pronouns

Preferred Pronouns

If you selected "other," please clarify here.

Please select person's race/ethnicity and ancestral delineation (select all that apply)

Marital Status

Tribe, if known

Wedding Anniversary, (if applicable)

OCCUPATION INFORMATION

Occupation / Job Title

Place of Employment

WE ARE EXCITED TO INTRODUCE YOU TO COMMUNITY MEMBERS WHO SHARE SIMILAR BACKGROUNDS. PLEASE SELECT ALL DEMOGRAPHIC CATEGORIES THAT APPLY TO YOU:

INTERESTS

Our community members are the heart of everything we do - from religious services to cultural programs, events and holiday gatherings. It all happens because of you. Membership dues and donations are an important part of the investment that keeps Beth El running, but we also rely on time and effort from volunteers. Below is a list of areas where fantastic lay leaders are already working and would welcome your contribution. We can use you for 15 minutes or for an entire day.

Check the box(es) that interest you.

FINANCE, DEVELOPMENT AND BUILDING

RITUAL AND EDUCATION

ENGAGEMENT

MEMBER ENGAGEMENT | Welcome New and Potential MembersCOMMUNITY OF CARING | Call, Visit, Deliver MealsMAJOR EVENTS | Help Plan and Execute Ad-Hoc Events

EXTERNAL COMMUNITY RELATIONS

SOCIAL ACTION | Promotes Opportunities for TzedakahINTERFAITH | Strengthen Ties Across Durham's Faith CommunitiesRACIAL JUSTICE | Education and Action for a More Inclusive Congregation and CommunityKOL KOLOTEINU | Support our LGBTQ CommunityKULANU | Fighting Antisemitism in our CommunityDURHAM CAN | Congregations Partnering for Justice and Systems Change

Are there other areas you want to learn about?

Any specialized skills you want to share?

If you have any mental or physical disabilities or accessibility needs that you would like us to be aware of, please let us know below.

ADDRESS INFORMATION

* Street Address

Apt or Unit #

* City

* State

* Zip Code

Home Phone Number (if applicable)

* What brought you to the Triangle area? Is this a permanent move?

ADDITIONAL ADULT INFORMATION

If any other adults live in your home full time (not including the Primary and Secondary heads of household above), you can enter those family members here.

How many Additional Adults live in your home?

ADDITIONAL ADULT 1

* Full Name

* Age

* Relationship to you

ADDITIONAL ADULT 2

* Full Name

* Age

* Relationship to you

ADDITIONAL ADULT 3

* Full Name

* Age

* Relationship to you

ADDITIONAL ADULT 4

* Full Name

* Age

* Relationship to you

CHILDREN INFORMATION

If any children live in your home, you can enter the information for those children here.

* Do you have Children living in your home?

How many children live in your home?

CHILD INFORMATION

* First Name

* Last Name

* Birth Date

* School

Grade

If this child has any mental or physical disabilities or accessibility needs that you would like us to be aware of, please let us know below.

TALMUD TORAH INTEREST

Talmud Torah is Beth El's religious school for students in Pre-K through Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Classes meet once or twice weekly (depending on age). Our school is a warm, welcoming and inclusive learning environment. Teachers engage students and equip them to become thoughtful, socially-conscious and Jewishly literate members of their community. We use a flexible tuition model that allows you to decide how much you are able to contribute towards your child’s formal Jewish education at Beth El. You must complete this membership renewal form before you can register your child(ren) for Hebrew School.

If you are interested in Talmud Torah -- to learn more and/or to enroll your child(ren) -- check the box below. In the meantime, feel free to reach out to Beth El's Executive Director, Ed Fleishman at execdirector@betheldurham.org.

* Interested in Talmud Torah for this child?

YAHRZEITS

If you have Yahrzeits you would like to observe, you can provide details about your loved one(s) below.

* Do you have Yahrzeits you would like to add?

Number of Observed Yahrzeits

* First Name

* Last Name

Hebrew Name (English Transliteration)

* Date of Death

Before Sundown

After Sundown

* Mourner Name (i.e. your name, your child's name, etc.)

* Mourner's relationship to deceased (i.e. daughter of, son of, husband of)

* Want a reminder in advance of each Yahrzeit date?

FINANCIAL CONTRIBUTIONS

Membership dues are not fees for service, just as our synagogue is not merely a building. But they do provide the financial foundation for Beth El. Dues levels are determined by the amount, per household, needed to support our community’s wants and needs. About 60% of our operating budget is funded by dues, and 20% by Annual Fund donations. Our fiscal year runs from June 1st to May 31st and dues are billed by the fiscal year.

The total amount you pledge on this form is your contribution for the entire year. You are not expected to pay it in full today. We do encourage anyone who doesn't pay in full to setup monthly recurring payments through your new ShulCloud account and we offer support if help is needed setting this up. A $100 deposit is due upon completion of this form, then your remaining pledge will be billed to you.

MEMBERSHIP DUES

**Anyone who wants to be part of our community can join, regardless of personal financial circumstances.**

If you cannot afford to pay the full dues amount, we will absolutely meet you at a level you can afford. This is called “Adjusted Dues” and the process is simple and confidential: we ask you to define what a meaningful contribution is for your household. You will be provided more information when you select an "ADJUSTED" category below.

*Associate Members are eligible for full membership under the terms of Article IV of the Beth El Constitution and are full members of another Jewish Congregation in the region.

* Membership Dues Categories

ADJUSTED DUES

We're glad you're here, in community with us! If you've selected the "Adjusted Dues" option, it is because you are unable to pay the standard dues amount. Rather than offering a generic discount, we want you to tell us what a meaningful contribution is for your household. We do not require proof of financial need, but we would like to understand your circumstances and how we can support you this year.

Below is a space to provide whatever information you are comfortable sharing. It will be kept confidential among the relevant staff, and not shared with fellow congregants. If you have any questions, please contact Executive Director, Ed Fleishman: ExecDirector@betheldurham.org, or Bookkeeper, Noelle Satterfield: bookkeeper@betheldurham.org.

Adjusted Dues Amount:

Write in your dues pledge for the year. Remember, you are not required to make this full payment today.

Provide some context for the requested adjustment:

ANNUAL FUND

The Annual Fund makes up the gap from what membership dues don't cover. It allows us to welcome everyone, regardless of the amount they are able to pay, with open arms. Dues adjustments are possible for members who need them because others contribute above the standard amount. Please consider making your pledge to the Annual Fund today.

Donors of $1,000 or more to this year's Annual Fund will be recognized as part of the Beth El Shoreshim ("Roots") Society.

Write in your Annual Fund Contribution

KIDDUSH & ONEG FUND

Kiddush is an important part of the culture of Beth El. Every Saturday you are welcome to join us for a Shabbat Kiddush lunch. Each household contributes $154 to support our community in this way.

Kiddush & Oneg Fund Contribution | $154

BETH EL SISTERHOOD

Sisterhood is a vibrant, interesting, and fun-loving group, encompassing women of all ages, experiences, and backgrounds. Dues are free for the first year of membership and $40 for each year following.

Please check here if you would like to be a member of Beth El Sisterhood.

MEN OF BETH EL

Men of Beth El is a male-identifying fellowship and service group. Dues are $18 per year.

Please check here if you would like to be a member of Men of Beth El (MOB).

ACKNOWLEDGMENT

Type your full name to acknowledge

1) I have read the information provided in this form.
2) I understand the dues structure.
3) My financial commitment is accurate for my household size/income level.

* ELECTRONIC SIGNATURE:

* Date

PAYMENT

A $100 deposit is required upon submission of this form. Your remaining pledge will be billed to you. Please remember we encourage anyone who doesn't pay in full to setup recurring monthly payments through your new ShulCloud account. Payments for this year must be made by May 31, 2025.

Deposit Due Today | $100

Total Due Today

When you click the "CONTINUE" button below, you will be prompted to create a new ShulCloud account by setting a password. Please keep your password somewhere safe - you will use it any time you need to log in.

You will then be directed to a payment confirmation page to add this financial commitment to your account. Your information will not be saved until you complete the subsequent payment confirmation page.

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